Friday, December 27, 2013

Time to stop thinking you're the only one that matters


When it comes to the holidays, all i can do is remember the things my mother always took the time to teach me. 

Sitting in the McDonalds at LAX Monday morning, I noticed a couple looking for a spot to sit so they could enjoy their meal. 

As I was sitting alone, I offered them the bench across from me, showing them a gesture not many others spoke up to give. 

As the woman told me how gracious I was, I reminded her "'Tis the season not to think about yourself". 

To me, I don't mind sharing a booth in a crowded eatery with strangers. This is the season where you look to help others out, and that's something I definitely wanted to do. 

As I sit here typing this, Celine Dion's "Because you loved me" began playing over the airport PA, bringing me to tears. 

The things my mother taught have lived with me since she put them in my head, and I will do what I can to make sure my child knows how to conduct themselves. 

Traveling is definitely something not many people can do with ease, but I look at a lot of the things I do and give thanks that I am able to do what I can. 

I give thanks that I was raised how I was, and that I am able to enjoy life as I am. 

My mother is a family martyr - she died to show us how strong we could be, and now more than ever I see that. I see how strong she made my brother and I. 

I see how strong the bond we forged as children is now, regardless of what we may have said from time to time. 

If life was easy, everyone would be a millionaire. But it's not. Life shows us how grateful we should be, how much we should cherish every moment and enjoy all that we can. 

It always seems to me that the airport brings out the thoughtful side in me. I'm always looking to help someone else out, as much as I can. Maybe it's all I learn day buy day while at Trader Joe's, but dealing with people just seems to get easier when you've got a smile on your face. 

I definitely am proud of where I came from, and will never forget the things I was taught, regardless of how long it's been since I was taught those things. 

Don't forget where you came from. That's when you'll truly lose yourself. 

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Ballpark list -- work in progress



Reaching 16 of the 30, I decided to put a list together of the things i enjoy about the different parks, as well as things I may not be particularly fond. 

I've marked off 11 stadiums in the last 3 years, and with 14 to go, the time for this list was spot on. 

Angels Stadium, Anaheim
Date of first visit: 2003 vs Chi. (AL)
Number of visits: 42 and counting
Final Score: 10-8 Chicago
What I Like: Ease of access from freeways and Amtrak line. Best deal on food in the ballpark: Chronic Taco. During summer night games, visitors to the ballpark can hear fireworks from Disneyland at 9:30 pm. The stadium also serves as the host of 2-3 AMA SuperCross races, including the season opener. 
What I Don't Like: The inability to place a deposit on group tickets, the rise in cost of parking with either the New York (AL) or Boston

AT&T Park, San Francisco
Date of first visit: Aug 25, 2012 vs Atl
Number of visits: 44 (as of 2013)
Final Score: 7-3 Atlanta
What I Like: A taste of San Francisco at the ballpark, offering italian breaded chicken tenders, Northern California brewed beers and a wide array of alcohol to choose from. The view of the Bay Bridge at sunset is the best in ballpark view in California. Public transportation, BART, runs right along the left field line.
What I Don't Like: Winners of 2 of the last 3 World Series, baseball in San Francisco is at its peak right now. However, the Giants have begun to increase ticket prices including those in the upper reserve as well as the outfield. Parking for game 2 of the 2012 Fall Classic was $45. Parking for Braves vs Giants in May 2013: $35. 2012: $20. 

Chase Field, Arizona
Date of visit: May 20, 2006
Opponent: Atlanta
Final Score: 13-0 Arizona 
Liked: This was the first field outside of California I visited. First air-conditioned stadium, as well as first retractable roof stadium (and so far only). 
Disliked: First experience of a parking structure outside a ballpark or arena. 

Citizen's Bank Park, Philadelphia
Date of visit: June 28, 2012
Opponent: Pittsburgh
Final Score: 5-4 Pittsburgh 
Liked: While this is the home of one of the Braves biggest rivals, I still enjoyed how the Phillies honored those of the past. 
Disliked: Attending a day game in June was not something I thought into. The humidity of Philadelphia turned a white shirt yellow. 

Coors Field, Denver
Date of visit: July 10, 2010 
Opponent: San Diego
Final Score: 4-2 Colorado
Like: Similar to Safeco Field, Coors Field provides an element of the Rocky Mountains within its walls. Another one of the best sunsets in MLB, the ballpark also boasts the founding of Blue Moon beer with its own Blue Moon brewery & restaurant behind home plate. (http://mlb.mlb.com/news/article.jsp?ymd=20130501&content_id=46419990&vkey=pr_col&c_id=col) 
Dislike: n/a

Dodger Stadium, Los Angeles
Date of first visit: 1987
Number of visits: 40 and counting
Like: This was the first ballpark I ever went to, and many memories of trips here with my mom will always be fond ones. The sunset over the pavilion is one of the most gorgeous views in all of baseball. 
Dislike: Parking, lack of public transportation - The Dodgers and the LA Metro system do offer a shuttle from Union Station to the stadium, but there is no direct line to the stadium. Food - while Dodger Dogs are iconic in Los Angeles, the other food selections are rather unappealing and have remained the same for the better part of 20 years (eg. California Pizza Kitchen & Carls Jr.)

Fenway Park, Boston
Date of visit: June 22, 2012
Opponent: Atlanta
Final Score: 4-1 Atlanta
Like: The nostalgia of catching a summer game at the oldest park in baseball is hard to put to words. The smell of the food from behind the outfield, joining with the crowd in singing "Sweet Caroline" and getting to stare at a giant green wall in left field, also known as the Green Monster, is something you can only dream of until you see it with your own eyes. 
Dislike: While Fenway is the oldest park in MLB, it's seats are rather small. The older stadiums were built with support beams that do interfere with the view, but the stadium is rather intimate, IMO. 

Marlins Park, Miami
Date of visit: April 8, 2013
Opponent: Atlanta 
Final Score: 2-0 Atlanta
Like: Being in attendance for the Marlins second home opener, I got to see this park as many haven't: near capacity. With 34,439 "fans" in attendance, the park was 3,003 paid tickets off from being classified as sold out.   
Disliked: Not much to dislike going in with no expectations. 

O.Co Coliseum, Oakland
Date of visit: July 26, 2013
Opponent: Los Angeles (AL)
Final Score: 6-4 Oakland
Liked: The selection of food and beer, for a stadium that had not undergone any major renovations since being built in 1967, was a welcome surprise. 
Dislike: The yard in Oakland is the last of a dying breed - this is the last dual facility in regards to MLB and NFL. The age of the stadium shows, and the organization is desperate for a new stadium. 

Petco Park, San Diego
Date of first visit: July 16, 2006
Opponent: Altanta
Final Score: 10-5 Atlanta
What I Like: An east coast ballpark in Southern California, Petco is one of the absolute best environments for a game. In 1993, saw San Diego vs Chicago (NL). 

Safeco Field, Seattle
Date of visit: Sept 11, 2013
Opponent: Houston 
Final Score: 6-1 Houston
Liked: The aura of Seattle is second to none. Safeco Field truly encompasses the Great Northwest within its grounds, and $5 beers in the pen from the time the gates open up until an hour before first pitch is one of the best deals in all of MLB. 
Dislike: n/a

Turner Field, Atlanta
Date of first visit: Oct 3, 2010 vs Phi. 
Opponents: Philadelphia, New York (NL), Chicago (NL)
Final Score: 7-0 Philadelphia
Like: This park, to me, is home. For years, I've dreamt of being able to witness a game live in Atlanta. In 2010, I made my first venture. This will always be my favorite park, as it is the home field of my favorite team. 
Dislike: Distance from home to Turner Field. Watching games via TBS for years made my summer dream to be at Turner Field. 

Tropicana Field, St. Petersburg
Date of visit: April 7, 2013
Opponent: Cleveland 
Final Score: 13-0 Cleveland 
Liked: This was the first true dome stadium I visited. While the club does not have much history, it did pay homage to one Hall of Famer that spent the final years of his career there: Wade Boggs. The ballpark's walls are adorned with comic book style drawings. 
Dislike: n/a

U.S. Cellular Field, Chicago (AL)
Date of visit: 2010
Opponent: Texas
Final Score: 7-4 Texas
Like: While the South Side of Chicago is one of the worst areas in the country, this is one of the most storied ball clubs in all of MLB. On the night of my visit, the Sox hosted "Elvis Night". The food selections bring you a taste of Chicago, including an italian meat sandwich that included horseradish. (When in Rome…). This stadium is also very accessible from Chicago's public transit, build for the Worlds Columbia Expedition in the late 1800's.
Dislike: One wrong turn and you can find yourself in a neighborhood you don't want to remain in for too long. 

Wrigley Field, Chicago
Date of visit: 2010
Opponent: Atlanta 
Final Score: 3-0 Atlanta
Like: This was the first of the old ballparks I visited. Being able to take in a night game at the friendly confines was an experience in itself, especially during August. This ballpark was truly built into the neighborhood, as can be seen from watching a Cubs game on TV. While the stadium approached it's 100th year, renovations have been made, as after it's 100th anniversary, the stadium cannot undertake more upgrades as it is a national monument. 
Dislike: n/a 

Yankee Stadium
Date of visit: June 25, 2012
Opponent: Cleveland 
Final Score: 7-1 New York 
Like: While this was the new Yankee Stadium, it still had the nostalgia, to me, of the old park. While everyone looks at the Yankees as "The Evil Empire", one cannot help but indulge themselves in the ballpark with the history of baseball at the museum the ballpark boasts. With displays set up honoring Mickey Mantle, Lou Gehrig and Babe Ruth, the club sure did go all out to make sure it held onto the memorabilia of old. 
Dislike: The new stadium, as all original stadiums were built, is entrenched in the Bronx. But what this does is cut down on parking, for those who do not have the ability to take the public transit that runs right by the ballpark. I recommend getting to the stadium early - we paid $48 for valet parking. 

Friday, October 25, 2013

A post from 9/11/2013 that never made it online... until now


September 11, 2013. 

It has been twelve years to the date of the not-so-forgettable attacks this country endured, and as I travel along the west coast, I am reminded of the things many of us put in the back of our minds leading up to this day. 

Traveling, to many, is rather easy. You're in, you're out, and you're on your way. 

But there have been numerous times where fellow travelers are unaware of why airport security, especially TSA, sticks to the guidelines they set following 9/11. 

I recall days when you were able to meet the passenger you were picking up at his/her gate, being asked to go through security just like any other passenger. 

These days, it is far-fetched to think our country can return to that point. 

Trust, as it was, has gone out the window. 

Now, regardless of skin color, everyone is looked at as a potential threat - with a very good reason. 

Everyone is from a different walk of life. Everyone has their own agenda, and that is not to be overlooked. 

But, in my eyes, everyone deserves their fair chance to do as they wish, except when putting others lives in danger. 

When I first booked this flight, I didn't think much into traveling on 9/11, as did those who lost their lives that fateful day. 

But as they date approached, I started to recall the memories of that morning. 

Where I was, what my reaction was, and the reactions of those around me that day. 

This is a day our country will not soon forget, as it never should be. 

For years, citizens stood by our government with the faith that we could rid the world of hypocrisy and dictators. 

But what we didn't expect was a band of free-thinking extremists could devastate our country as it did. 

It has been known that history repeats itself, but where did we see this coming? 

As we look back, we see the evolution of time, the evolution of people and the evolution of thinking. 

Are we to think something like 9/11/2001 can happen again? 

Are we to think that a president like George W. Bush, who many look back on as one of the worst to be elected, actually knew what was going on that morning while he sat in a Florida classroom? 

What can we take from the memories we still have from this day - many of which still bring tears to our eyes? 

We must, as a people, and a country, move forward, as many have suggested. 

We must stay strong to our beliefs, as separate as they may be from others around us. 

We must stay true to our country, even as many of us do not feel those appointed leaders have the power to change the things many feel need to be changed. 

We must remember those who risked their lives in the moments after the attacks, and those who enlisted their services to join the military in remembrance of those lives lost. 

But most of all, we must be thankful for the things we have. 

Many are not as grateful to have the things we do, to be able to do the things we do. 

In that light, is there a better way to pay honor to those who risked their lives for the well-being of the rest of us? 

As a sports fan, there is no better way to pay homage to those who risked their lives, and those who were lost in the attacks, than to have the baseball teams in New York don the caps of the first responders. 

It may be tough for many to admit, but to me, it is a necessity. 

This country has been through a lot, but we must honor those who are not around to see today.